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Diplomat-turned-senior Congress person Shashi Tharoor connected Thursday (December 11, 2025) said helium was shocked that India remains 1 of the fewer democracies wherever marital rape is not viewed with the seriousness it deserves, contempt having stringent anti-rape laws.
Speaking astatine a programme organised by the Prabha Khaitan Foundation successful relation with the FICCI Ladies Organisation, Mr. Tharoor said, "I americium shocked to find that India is 1 of the fewer democracies successful the satellite wherever the lawsuit of a hubby raping his woman without her consent is not treated with the seriousness arsenic it should person been."
He pointed retired that portion India has beardown anti-rape law, determination are exceptions for husbands which is thing but marital rape violating a pistillate without her consent. "Why should they [husbands] beryllium exempted?" helium said.
“If 1 doesn't respect his beingness spouse and rapes her against her wishes citing conjugal narration that is usurpation of instrumentality and unit against women,” helium added.
He said the existent proviso rests connected "an outdated presumption that matrimony is simply a ineffable sacrament and that immoderate happens wrong it cannot beryllium classified otherwise." "We deliberation a due instrumentality against home rape is massively indispensable successful the country. It is nevertheless bittersweet that adjacent women Ministers holding peculiar portfolios did not look into this aspect," to forestall specified atrocities,” helium said.
Mr. Tharoor said the objection is simply a "travesty," of justness and it offers impunity adjacent successful cases wherever couples are separated but not yet divorced.
"A batch of marital rape occurs among couples who are separated but not legally divorced. You often spot situations where, for example, talaq has been pronounced, the hubby is surviving separately, and yet helium returns whenever helium wishes and forces himself connected his woman and thing tin beryllium done due to the fact that the instrumentality inactive considers them hubby and wife," helium said.
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Mr. Tharoor was replying to a question by a pistillate assemblage pupil during a 'tête-à -tea' with him and his sisters, Shobha Tharoor Srinivasan and Smita Tharoor, astatine the GD Birla Sabhagar successful Kolkata.
Observing that determination is an implicit presumption that "marital rape" tin beryllium allowed wrong a conjugal marriage, helium reiterated, "It is not portion of conjugal love, it is violence." "We request to basal up for rights of women, which successful galore ways are being overlooked. We should talk out," Mr. Tharoor said to thunderous applause of the audience.
Asked astir the alleged hostility towards Indians and different immigrants successful the U.S. and Europe, helium agreed that the "resentment has go truthful overmuch much visible, truthful overmuch overtly hostile." "There is hostility to migrants, a xenophobia which is not conscionable successful the West but worldwide. People consciousness their dreams are being thwarted by radical not similar them. That hostility is expanding and is besides disposable successful our country," helium said.
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"For young radical going to U.S. for assistance my proposal volition beryllium summation cognition and past travel back. Your metropolis needs you. Your state needs you," helium said.
Thanking his sisters and household for the "tremendous, affectional enactment to negociate done the unsmooth tumble of governmental life," Mr. Tharoor said, "The astir important happening to beryllium existent to oneself. To ticker your values your capabilities" successful the chosen domain.
"I ever said determination is nary constituent successful being a cooky cutter politician. I judge and basal by my politics, of my ideas, of my values. Even if my values are not palatable, I ne'er flinch. I ne'er said thing I did not judge in," helium said.
To a question astir the cognition that helium communicates successful exotic, uncommon English words, Mr. Tharoor said, "I similar to deliberation I americium a communicator with radical and determination is nary constituent successful communicating if they don't recognize you." Asked if helium exercises diplomatic restraint astatine home, helium quipped, "I won't accidental I americium diplomatic astatine home. There is nary anticipation of being nether ticker (when 1 is astatine home) whether you are pursuing enactment enactment with each utterance and enactment erstwhile you are successful the institution of your adjacent ones and not successful public," helium explained.
